God told us "No" today for reasons unknown. It is with overwhelming sadness that I post this. I know there are people who follow this blog with interest in what is going on in our lives that we don't talk to every day and this is the least painful way for me to inform at this point. Just as I enter the second trimester of pregnancy our baby was miscarried. We learned today that the baby died a few weeks back but because I've still been on a heavy regimen of In Vitro related hormones the medications "tricked" my body into still thinking it was pregnant, which is why I'm just now finding out I'm not any longer.
There are so many unanswered questions that I have and I can tell you when I get to the place where answers can be given I'm going to be asking why God said "no". In the meantime we'll focus on Tristan, and in the back of my mind there will always be hope that a miracle will happen and maybe he'll get a sibling down the road someday. We know we are lucky to have him.
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Oh Tiff, I am so, so sorry. My heart is breaking for you and Mike right now. God has a plan and although we will probably never understand it, we have to trust in him. If there is ANYTHING that I can do, please let me know. Tristan can come over and play any time if you need a break, or I will bring over a meal if you just don't feel like cooking. Again, I am so sorry and your family is in my prayers!
I'm so sorry to hear this! It's so hard to understand God when these things happen, but I know that ultimately He has something better planned for you guys.
Tiff, Mike, & Tristan, we mourn with you and we love you.
Tiffany, the sad thing is I can honestly say I know exactly how you feel. If I can offer you any advice, try not to beat yourself up by asking why all the time. Heavenly Father has a plan in store for your family and He loves you very, very much. Hold onto that. If there is anything I can do, lend a shoulder to cry on, bring you dinner, anything, please let me know. Your family is in our prayers.
I am speechless for the right words that will give you the comfort and support that I so desperately want you to have. If you have a quiet moment try and find a song online called Glory Baby by a group called Watermark. It's beautiful. I loved your baby too. I was so excited to meet him/her. I am really sad. ((Big Hug))
Wish I could give you a hug!
Praying for peace and healing friend.
I really don't what else to say but, that I am so sorry sweetheart! Tiffany I have to say thank you for opening up your heart and sharing this with us. I'll be praying for you and your family.
I am so, so sorry. My heart just fell when I heard this news. It's so hard to have a no answer and not any reasons, to not understand why. I will be praying for God's peace and strength to cover you through this tough time. He DOES know the desires of your heart and loved this little one more than you can imagine.
Dear Lord,
I pray for the healing of this family, not just physically, but mentally as well. Help them to understand the happenings in their families and to make peace with the passing of that little angel. I pray that you put that little angel at their side everyday, all day and that you and that angel will comfort them at the low times. Please Lord also put on their hearts that they are not alone. They have people that love them and want to be a shoulder to cry on, or even a means to a laugh or a smile. Lord I know that you have the power to heal them through and through, please let them remember that as well.
In Jesus' name we pray,
AMEN
I'm so sorry Tiffany, you guys are in our prayers.
Hugs,
Danielle
Oh Tiffany, I am so sorry you are going thru this. I wish this hadn't happend. Please know that I'm thinking of you and if you need anything, I'm here for you.
Oh, Tiffany. I'm so very sorry. I know it must have been a very difficult day for you and you still took the time and effort to post about it.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this time of grief and healing.
I'm so sorry for your loss.
I don't know if you know me from MOPS, but I've been there myself. I am always sorry to hear of someone else going through a pregnancy loss. It is never easy to go through, and often there are no answer.
If you need anyone to talk to or would like some resources for support, I've been there myself (I had four losses before my daughter Nora was born in 2007), please feel free to e-mail me at jules4je7@yahoo.com and I can talk to you in person, on the phone or whatever you need. I just want you to know you are not alone.
Again, I am so sorry for your loss.
((HUGS))
Jules
My heart is so sad. I wish I knew the exact words of comfort that would give you some encouragement. I will say how sorry I am and how much you are loved!
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